I am a submissive male in my heart and...

She is not disinterested but it's never worked in the past and becomes one sided service. She is naturally dominant but has a very hard time with what society has ingrained in her core about how a woman should be around the man she loves. It's hard for her and we visit it from time to time, she knows logically it makes sense for her to lead and I love her with all my heart. We have even talked about maybe the parts she struggles with letting me experience elsewhere. We communicate and want each other to be happy so no matter what happens I think we will be fine.

My wife knows and enjoys it to a little degree. But she led me to believe she liked it a lot more before we were married.

My wife a school teacher for 30 years controls most aspects of our married life, however when I have attempted to get her to try some forms of D/s sex it has always been a no go. I have tried to get her to tie me up, peg me and several other activies. At this point sex is so infrequent I may as well be locked up. Would love anyone who has some advice on how to get her to indulage.

I have told my wife of some of my submissive desires But I’m having difficulty getting her to understand